Today is International Older Persons Day!
International Older Persons Day is a day originally founded by the United Nations (UN) that aims to highlight the importance and the value of the contribution that the elderly in our community has made over the years.
In various cultures across the world, the elderly are viewed differently. In some countries, senior citizens are valued and respected. Their knowledge and years of experience are viewed as a gift which is greatly appreciated and listened to.
In other countries, the elderly can be seen as a burden, as no longer functional and are disposable. It is because of this view that many fear becoming older, and they are worried about the stigma that surrounds the word ‘’elderly’’.
The Ageing World
As we are an ageing world, ageing faster than ever before, we need to adapt. We need to consider the full potential of each person throughout the life cycle. Anything that can be done, should be done to embrace the inclusion of older persons in every aspect of life.
Since the hit of COVID-19, the elderly in our families and community are feeling more isolated and undervalued than ever before. These very elders have lived through worse in their lifetime than we have so far. Having come through the Great Depression, World War II, Recessions and so much more.
These senior citizens could teach us a thing or two when it comes to enduring change and handling adversity. From the wisdom and experience of the Greatest Generation (1901 – 1927) to the energy and action of the soon to be retiring Baby Boomers (1946 – 1964) we need to remember and value our elders.
Valuing The Elderly
Showing Respect
It can be easy to simply say ”Respect your elders” but when you think about it what does it actually mean?
Firstly, listening to a person is one of the most basic ways to show respect. Secondly, we can acknowledge them. Acknowledging something means that you have noticed something positive about them.
Lastly, being kind and polite, ”you’ll catch more flies with honey than with vinegar”. Being kind and polite costs nothing but it can mean everything.
Asking Advice
Whether you are 18 or 80, you appreciate it when someone comes to you asking advice. What better way is there to show someone you value them and their opinion?
It’s sad to think that a lifetime of experience and skills isn’t taken advantage of. Next time you find yourself in a pickle, think about asking some of the older persons in your family or community for their advice.
Taking an Interest in the Past
Many of those in the older generations look back on the past with fondness. It was simpler times, the ”good old days”. Showing an interest in how they dealt with certain issues or situations in their past is a great way to bond and better understand the person.
Without realizing it, you’re sitting in a history lesson that is far better than reading it from a book.
Spending Time
Many seniors get lonely, especially those who live on their own. If they have retired and their general daily routine has changed, it can be easy to feel lonely very quickly.
Feeling isolated and lonely can lead to a decrease in their overall health (mentally and physically). It is important to spend time with the elderly in our families and in our communities. Staying in touch and spending time is even more precious now with the global pandemic of COVID-19.
Seniors having to cocoon for their safety have had to learn new ways to communicate. So, if you haven’t already, teach the senior citizens you know about Zoom videos, Skype and Video Calls to help keep in touch and spend quality (albeit virtual) time together.
Why not show someone you value how much you admire them with their very own Uccello Kettle? Choose yours here today.
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